I decided to give him a second, 3rd, and 4th chance after taking your comments and advice into consideration. It looks like I may get a head start from my girls because He’s definitely going to be my winter boo. It was a Saturday afternoon and I wanted to see Him so I took the initiative and called and just as I figured he was doing some Home Depot fixer upper tasks, he asks if he can see me later and I was happy because he took the bait like I figured.
I got glammed up and opted for a sexy yet playful dress paired with gladiator heels, and I sit around and anticipate his arrival while gabbing to my girlfriends that I really think he could be the one. He calls to tell me he’s outside and I’m so excited that Prince Charming has arrive. I go outside and to my surprise he has a new Range Rover, I slink into the passenger side and indulge in the buttery leather seats. He looks over at me and smiles seductively and I do the same. We drive to this lovely Italian Cucina in the Heights and engage in conversation about my crazy 9-5 and his aspirations of being a pilot over pasta primavera. After a few martinis he takes me to the promenade where we walk to hand in hand. We enjoy and intake the city skyline and the cool breeze while gazing into the dark waters. I laid against his muscular filling rugby and close my eyes. After countless hours that seemed to breeze by we get back in his car.
We drive towards home and stopped at the stop light, he asked for a kiss and I gave him just that. He was entrapped in my warm mouth and his tongue was absolutely sweet. After a while we realized we were at a stop light and should probably pull over and that we did. He grabbed the back of my neck and embraced me in the sexiest lip lock I’ve had in ages. He caressed my legs, my arms, my breast. He then grabs my leg and kisses it from my toes to my thigh, turns it over and does the same thing. My eyes read sex but I pull back from doing what I wanted, what he wanted, what we both desired. He takes out my breast and sucks both of them at the same time while nibbling on my nipples, he’s excited beyond belief by this point because he’s bulging out of his pants and I tease his hard on with my soft touch. I knew we weren’t going to fuck but I wanted to see what was in store for me. I tell him, “I want to see how turned on you are” he takes out a long, dark, rugged dick out and I smile in delight and bite my lips. I love sucking dick but I just couldn’t do it, we were moving way too fast by this point and he sensed my hesitance and apologized and tucked away his Hershey chocolate monster.
We go back to kissing each other like it depended on life and death all into the wee hours of the morning. He drops me off home but as badly as I wanted him to come up I wouldn’t allow it. I have a 3 month rule and we are only on the 2nd month so he has to wait and get tested then we can move onto next base. I can’t wait to envelope him in my pussy, and to think I thought he lacked sexual chemistry and charisma. Its always the silent ones that have a freaky side. You just have to yank it or suck it out.
Discussion
1. Have you ever dated someone who lacked excitement in other areas but came alive in the bedroom?
2. Have you ever held out when you just knew you were going to burst?
3. How do you feel about the 3 month rule? Do you have one?
4. Do you think that You’ve got mail may turn into the official winter boo or will he turn out to be like the rest?
@Jenn: I’m in the same situation as you. I met a guy early in July. I was impressed that he went out of his way to find me on Facebook after merely seeing me at a event a mutual friend invited him to. I knew on the first date that there was no real attraction on my part, but I decided to go on a second and third date to see if any chage would arise. It didn’t:(
He’s a great guy. Smart, talented, focused, a gentleman, but the “umph” is totally lacking. It’s obvious that he’s attracted to me. He wants to see me as often as possible, but I can’t give him reciprocity. What’s a girl to do? *sigh*
I commented on the other post about dating a guy I have no chemistry with. I went out with him again (at the suggestion of my friends and my mama!) and still for me there is no chemistry. He is now talking in “We” and “our future” and Im like Dude, you are so off. He is a nice guy, he does things for me that most wish they could get a guy to do, like buy roses for no reason, pour his heart out to me in lovely cards, etc. He’s a perfect gentlmen, I couldn’t have designed him better myself,lol but…..I am not attracted to him or feel any sense of romantic chemistry.
I think I’ve figured it out, he has NO swagger about himself. He’s kind nerdy and weird and very unsure of himself. He tells me all the time he TRYing to be the PERFECT man for me and I’m like Dude, no one’s pefect, be yourself.
I get it now, HE’s trying so hard to impress me, he’s turning me off.
Sorry for the rant
Okay..in your situation, the chemistry has developed and I’m excited to see where it will go. I do have a 3 month rule because most dogs will show their true colors by then so I hold out on my goodies until then.