You don’t really have good PUSSY

My homeboy, Shotta Dru, writes on the daily reads gripes of men and women on social networks i.e. Twitter, Facebook and he observed that women tend to point the finger at the opposite sex. (HmMm, I’m not denying this). His most recent rant (JUst playing not a rant) was very controversial yet true in many forms. I had to place this up on Bright Lights once I read it. His main inspiration behind this was on the quality of women that men encounter on a daily basis. Check it out…..

I never understood why Young Money wanted “to fuck every girl in the world.” Nothing is worse for a man or women to get naked, lick, suck, pump, sit on etc., for a half-ass nut and in some cases no nut at all. As a woman, you have the pussy so indeed you have the power. But power does come in levels, “all Pussy was not created equal,” I mean Hitler and Saddam were two bad mo-fo’s but was their power on the same level? Now, ladies, I know you’re thinking, “I got that Hitler vag. I have dudes wrapped around my finger” but I hate to break it to you, your vag is just as powerful as the Queen of England. No, I am not contradicting previous blogs like “Power of the People,” ladies, the power of our land is held between your legs but not everyone can be a boss. Plenty of you have peasant vag but act like your shit don’t stink. Whose fault is that you’re asking? Why are lame, good for nothing bird chicks walking around telling dudes they got the bomb ass pussy? Same pussy that has been ran through more than the boroughs during the New York Marathon. It doesn’t add up, right? Well, it’s us, MEN who have put “the pussy on a pedestal.”

There is a surplus of vag scurrying the streets of NYC. I doubt a man could not find his preference in a big city like this one. Economics have taught us that “wants” are unlimited and the same theory applies to vagina. Rarely, have I found myself or any male friend not horny and in need of the comfort of some vagina. Men, being we are stupid and greedy pursue all types of vagina. Over the years with my maturity and experience my cock has started to live by term “Quality not Quantity.” Men and women have seen a very shapely female but even though she was blessed during puberty her genes in the looks department are obviously flawed. Women, being evil creatures, will be quick to say, “Oh the “bitch is ugly” but I bet if you asked a group of guys 75% of them would answer, “Yeah she ugly but I’ll still hit it.” Any man reading this may think I’m OD’ing on these numbers but would you sleep with Buffy the Body? I rest my case.

Vagina does not have a face to (some) men; we don’t need any real reasoning to sleep with a woman. As a result of men settling where they stick their dick, this has affected the quality of vag. Now we have But-her-head, rocking Uggs to the club, multiple baby daddies at 23-years-old women walking around being stush. Women always ask what makes good pussy and I could never answer it before because I was still “young nigga-minded.” Depending on where in life a man is, good pussy is different. For a boy, good pussy equates getting head, throws it back during back shots and doesn’t talk after you nut (preferably she goes home after you nut so you can finish that game of Madden). But as you age and (hopefully) mature, I do know a lot of 25 plus year-old boys, they grow in age but mentality is stagnant at 16, note to you gentlemen good pussy evolves. Good pussy is goal-oriented, has domestic capabilities and you are able to introduce her to momma. Unfortunately, in the past I have not treated my dick with the utmost respect. Instead of sexing just to fulfill a physical need men need to ask themselves this question while unwrapping that condom wrapper (hopefully you not living a Lil’ Wayne lifestyle). “Would I take this chick home to my mother?” With that in mind, I guarantee your amount of sex partners has been cut into at least half. I know plenty of guys who don’t even want their baby mother raising the kid they had together. I am a firm believer in the saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” my cup of tea in a women is completely different from you but that settling for a nut has to stop. We always joke in person and on Twitter about chicks looking slummy on the streets or on messdressed.com. If these chicks knew they were a laughing stock do you think they would be walking around like this? Obviously some thirsty, impatient, low self-esteem dudes are sexing these chicks. Once we start to obtain more respect for our dicks women will start to step their game up. They will start wearing clothes again instead of Uggs and tights all year round, if they can’t afford good weave they will go without it, instead of those plastic looking weaves and wigs. Stop going by the Buffy the Body standards because now unattractive chicks with fat tits and fat ass will stop walking around like they are the shit. Plenty of you thirsty niggas fall right into their trap anyway; if she is posting half naked pics of herself on Facebook/Twitter what does that say about her? Obviously, she can’t obtain attention through her mind. Tits eventually sag, intelligence doesn’t.

Women are quick to say that they are single because there aren’t any good men and they refuse to settle but men have clearly been settling now just for a nut and this has flooded our streets with high mileage poorly presentable vag. I usually rant on Twitter and my Facebook statuses about women walking around the streets in Uggs and tights all year round. Yes, we laugh and joke about my statuses and pics but this epidemic has affected the quality of vag walking our streets. Do you think men like cheap weaves, tights, Uggs, etc.? Stop complaining that you only meeting “no shit” niggas; if your goods are presented in shit packaging what do you expect to attract? Cockiness and confidence are words that have been confused. Cockiness in women is at an all time high yet we men cannot see what you are so confident about. Men are very easily stimulated visually but a set of round perky breasts or a NATURAL plump jiggly ass does not equate to good pussy ladies. Just because a bunch of guys poke you on Facebook or direct message you shit on Twitter doesn’t mean you have good pussy. Oh, a particular promoter doesn’t charge you to come into his parties? That does not mean you have good pussy! Did you ever think that you are half naked in your pics, you only discuss getting drunk on weekends, or countdown to partying in Miami Memorial Day weekend on these social networks? Think his inquiry is because he wants to wine and dine you or introduce you to Mommy? Why do we dress up for job interviews? It shows self-worth, value and makes good impressions to the employer. Ladies, the way you walk on the streets, the pics you post on the Internet, these are all pre-screen interviews. So stop complaining about men ain’t shit and your pussy is too good. Actually you might not be shit so get some Febreze for your stinky ass. I know from those last few lines you are thinking what about the other side of the spectrum. Yes, there are some low life dirty niggas walking the streets and they have no shame to holla at you on your way to work. Like, seriously, you’re going to work he smoking a black and mild trying to get your number at 8a.m., you don’t have no place to be negro? Can’t help those fools though, you just need to make sure you’re on point, surround yourself with positive people and then you will realize that some men are actually shit. So your homegirl been working on her associates for 4 years now and counting? Cut her off. Your other friend working on baby father #3 before 25? Cut her off! The circle you keep, the places you go and the way you present yourself all determine what kind of men you are going to attract, so stop blaming men and keep your shit tight, no pun intended.

Discussion

1. Is there validity to his point of view?

2. Given the huge uproar from Erykah’s new video Window Seat why is it that black men have put her on a pedastal due to the ass shots?  What does this do to the girl who has no boobs or flat ass self-esteem?

3. For the Ladies: Is your Pussy good? For the men: Do you honestly wish you could fuck every girl in the world?

13 responses to “You don’t really have good PUSSY

  1. Renee Cunningham

    What you stated is so true on many levels. I am a sister with a whole lot of curves, but we all grow older and beauty will fade . Intelligence never fades. I am a married women . So many women want a good man with it all and can’t bring nothing to the table . It’s time to get your mind right . Stop giving men nothing to work for . Hunters like to hunt and talk about how hard they worked to get it . Stop fucking dudes just because they have nice cars , stop having babies and YOU can’t afford them . IT’S TIME TO START THINKING WITH YOUR HEAD AND NOT YOUR PUSSY . I’m just saying Detroit ladies and the ladies around the world .

  2. This is definitely on point!!!!! Nothing else to say Hahaha. Will pass this on.

  3. Wow i was clearly looking for something else but continued reading and i can say this really opened my eyes on how i present myself to men and im only 22 and i do not want to be 25 and up single blaming men for my actions i truly thank u for this wake up call

  4. Other than that, good post

  5. I feel you, but what does taking longer to get your associate’s have to do with anything? Some women are put in a position where we have to hold the world on their shoulders. I have 2 kids, and my ex husband quit on them when I quit on him (he started using cocaine, which was completely new to me), and only comes around when he feels like it (once or twice a year) and I have a child with severe ADHD. I’m constantly called into my daughter’s school. In that time, I have had serious struggles outside of school, some which I will not name because they are so outrageous most people don’t believe things like that can happen. I have 5 legal cases, and only one is against me, which was caused by the other 4 and has no evidence that I’m at fault. It was caused by someone running their mouth and making up stories. I barely know the woman. So if I have been working on an AA for four years, it’s because I have to conquer a million things at once. Instead of being critical of women that take longer to get their degree, why not give them props for the fact that they haven’t quit yet?

  6. Nice post! Raw and gritty! Definately had me 2nd guessin my pussy. In a good way tho.

  7. flashinglightsss

    nice plug MY WHOLE MILK!

  8. I appreciate the comments Im happy we can see eye to eye on some points. I got a similar reaction from other people Row regarding the actually aspect of the vag being good. Truthfully I doubt any man can or should write about that. Because that same cliche answer of tight, warm, wet can be found anywhere. You can find that on your local hoodrat at the corner store or at a the preachers daughter at church. But like I was saying in the blog its take more than that to consider a women to have good pussy. Factors bwt the two parties sexing play a role. Women are very emotional and some women may naturally have Niagara Falls with every man they sex. While other have that connection of feelings to there vag and its not all just about a nut. So you may see yourself doing different things and your body reacting different to different men. So just to say good pussy and make a checklist is wrong to me. Feelings, emotions etc play a role in how your body reacts to every man you been with.

  9. This didnt have anything to do with good pooty. Good pooty is tight, warm and wet. So the men say. that’s the answer to that question. But love everything Shottadem aka DruLover718 had to say. This is more about how women present themselves today and how and why their presentation welcomes and results in the same type of half ass men. and alllll them damn girls that live like this and do this low budget and under-achieved sh!t are single and/or delusionally calling ONE of their many booty call men their “boyfriend”. I have seen this stuff first hand on a daily basis and had to get away from that circle of friends. i can go on and on on about this trifling ass, need-to-be-addressed-on-all-accounts subject, but i digress. AND i aint thinkin bout “window seat”. boys like a fat booty and that’s that. I’ll prolly address this later on my blog. VISIT ME: http://www.mywholemilk.tumblr. com

  10. Honestly, Theres alot of validity to your message to men to have better discretion about who their partners are. But at the end of the day blaming women simply for having sex is lazy also.
    I would consider myself an attractive female with a good head on her shoulders. But I cant count the amount of times the ‘well packaged’ men in the room are too busy following a girl with her skirt over her head around the club, trying to have an intelligent conversation with her stupid ass and pretending he cares what Young Money is doing just to get a shot with her.
    These same men become bitter about women and complain about how they are low class, loaded with kids, angry, inappropriate, and unstable – but they didnt care about that when they tripped all over themselves to get her attention. If more men slowed down and sought to avoid those qualities instead of putting up with them for the sake of twat you just might notice a significant difference in how you come to view women.
    There are plenty of good women (beauty/brains/sex/fun/cooking) around that you ‘good men’ are ignoring because we dont keep the goods on display or practice video ho moves in the mirror.
    Instead of worrying about why hoodrats have such high self esteem you should be wondering why there are legitimately good women who can’t seem to catch a decent mans attention, and have to adjust to the reality of a relationship being less than likely.
    There will ALWAYS be low class women around dressed and primed to grab your attention. Just like there will unfortunately always be worthless men around seeking mine. But its everyones job to use their discretion and reward the positive and dismiss the negative with better selection practices.

  11. As a female who tends to be one of the more modest dressers in the club (thus not the prime target for male advances), I understand how low quality women can make it bad for the rest of us. If the supply of sex goes up, the value of women can go down. So women of value aren’t valued as much as the chick down for a one-night stand. I used to blame guys and call them trifling for hollering at me incorrectly till I realized that chicks ACTUALLY respond to it! How dare I tell him “Yo, Ma, c’mere” is wrong when it works for Shaquita and Trina? Likewise, guys can’t get mad when women with “chickenhead-like” qualities act like they’re eagles. Tell your boys to stop gassing these women up just to get in bed with them, and maybe they’ll know their role. I think both men and women need to have standards that they won’t lower on a ‘lonely night’ or under the influence of alcohol. If both genders evolve from just accepting any old thing, then the dating pool would have to choice but to get better.

  12. Your point of view is 100% true. I think the window seat vid can and will affect self esteem all around, its sad but its reality. Parents got ta step in for that, or divine intervention.

  13. i agree 100%. dudes are driving up the price of pussy. most dudes would fuck any chick with a nice or big breasts. this just leads to a lot of inflated egos. its really travesty. to answer your question, no i would not in a million years want to fuck every girl in the world. i don’t even want to fuck every girl that attends my school. lol

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s